Thursday, June 4, 2009 // 5:08 AM
Nothing can be replaced
Kinship...how vulnerable that is and always giving in just for us. Showering love and care without anything in return.Yet,we take things for granted.. Living with them for so many years..bickering,quarrels,haranguing are almost inevitable. Sometimes,we even wished to leave this house as soon as possible and be away from all those "lectures".
Why should we tattoo this in heart when rising us up is such a tiring job?? If it really helps to make them feel much better,no harm hearing the "lectures" all over again. Why should we be angry and being defensive about it? In the end,we only break their hearts. Ya,there are times we may find it unfair or rather ridiculous that our parents put the blame on us...it is because...they were afraid that we may end up doing such foolish act. They may sound loud and fierce,but deep down...their hearts were shattered.
They love telling others the negative sides of their children saying how bad and rude we are..yet,they'll always remember the positive sides of ours. It's just that they don't wanna say it out loud to save all the mushy stuffs.
I'd find it quite irritating when they start to remind us to bath or dinner's ready.They would start reminding us repeatedly and soon....the nagging starts...BUT,what if,one day..there's no one in our house calling out our names reminding us to bath and have our meals on time?? These small little acts they do,prove that they are still here,with us,that someone care and love us.Wouldn't it be cold if we enter a house with no one addressing us the moment we stepped in our house?? yet....I just know how to reply them with a rather irritating and annoying tone.
With all this said,I've found it real ridiculous when I'd said that family is important to me..but,my actions doesn't prove it at all.
Couple of years back,when my mom said that she have difficulties in breathing and sometimes,she can feel that the pumping of her heart were intensed which caused uneasiness to her chest and respiratory system.At that point of time,she even mentioned that it's as though she's gonna leave us soon.Upon hearing this,sadness and a feeling of lost aroused in me.Of course,I'd held my tears back so that she won't see it...
As soon as I've entered the bathroom,tears just kept rolling down my cheeks unknowingly...it just happened less then a second! From then,I've known that I really love and care for my family,although sometimes I may be defiant..
Orphans out there are longing for one who will give them love and warmth..and here we are taking things for granted...shouldn't we cherish and treasure them and return the love they have given us?Whats more,blood is thicker then water.
Cherish while you still can
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Thursday, June 4, 2009 // 5:08 AM
Nothing can be replaced
Kinship...how vulnerable that is and always giving in just for us. Showering love and care without anything in return.Yet,we take things for granted.. Living with them for so many years..bickering,quarrels,haranguing are almost inevitable. Sometimes,we even wished to leave this house as soon as possible and be away from all those "lectures".
Why should we tattoo this in heart when rising us up is such a tiring job?? If it really helps to make them feel much better,no harm hearing the "lectures" all over again. Why should we be angry and being defensive about it? In the end,we only break their hearts. Ya,there are times we may find it unfair or rather ridiculous that our parents put the blame on us...it is because...they were afraid that we may end up doing such foolish act. They may sound loud and fierce,but deep down...their hearts were shattered.
They love telling others the negative sides of their children saying how bad and rude we are..yet,they'll always remember the positive sides of ours. It's just that they don't wanna say it out loud to save all the mushy stuffs.
I'd find it quite irritating when they start to remind us to bath or dinner's ready.They would start reminding us repeatedly and soon....the nagging starts...BUT,what if,one day..there's no one in our house calling out our names reminding us to bath and have our meals on time?? These small little acts they do,prove that they are still here,with us,that someone care and love us.Wouldn't it be cold if we enter a house with no one addressing us the moment we stepped in our house?? yet....I just know how to reply them with a rather irritating and annoying tone.
With all this said,I've found it real ridiculous when I'd said that family is important to me..but,my actions doesn't prove it at all.
Couple of years back,when my mom said that she have difficulties in breathing and sometimes,she can feel that the pumping of her heart were intensed which caused uneasiness to her chest and respiratory system.At that point of time,she even mentioned that it's as though she's gonna leave us soon.Upon hearing this,sadness and a feeling of lost aroused in me.Of course,I'd held my tears back so that she won't see it...
As soon as I've entered the bathroom,tears just kept rolling down my cheeks unknowingly...it just happened less then a second! From then,I've known that I really love and care for my family,although sometimes I may be defiant..
Orphans out there are longing for one who will give them love and warmth..and here we are taking things for granted...shouldn't we cherish and treasure them and return the love they have given us?Whats more,blood is thicker then water.
Cherish while you still can
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