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Sunday, January 24, 2010 // 7:06 AM

Love




Read some blogs of others.(strangers,friends)




Found out that 65% of them are attached.




They own their love story.




Some sweet,others bitter.












Many are friends, before getting together as lovers.




Always taking down, and counting the days they had together.




1 month,2 months,100 days,......countless anniversaries.




So what if they remembered?




All these...are unnecessary.












It may seems sweet.




We admire their love,crave for a one-and-for-all lover.




Yet,some love just end by some silly acts, hurtful words




or some lame excuses.












True love are for those who can last for a lifetime.




Countless anniversaries can never replace




a selfless love.












However,it's difficult to find a perfect lover.






'Cause of all the high expectations we see in our partner,






both parties,eventually gets suffocated.
















Some are really stubborn in their own perspective.






They never know, that it only takes a little






effort, to see things from a different






angle.










I'm pretty sure, that everyone knows,



that it takes two hands to clap.



You learn to give and take.







Both giver and taker, should not


play the same role throughout.

Giver,will eventually felt

that they're being treated unfairly.

'Cause,it's them who pampered their lover too much..

Making the taker,to take things for granted.

As time passes,the giver may not be

able to give the taker,what he/she wants.

That's the time where the taker's heart,

seems to wander around.

Which is a very crucial period, for the both of them.

It just only take another third party,

to take the lead,saying sweet stuffs to the taker.

Only then,the taker felt that he/she had

finally found what he/she wants.

Well,who knows,whether this taker will lose out

in the end......

Anyway,I'm not an anti-relationship person:)

Just waiting for the right "one."

Not putting high hopes/expectations for him.

It's the feelings that counts.

Sometimes,too much expectations,

may give us false hopes.

Anyway,just wanna be with my love ones first <3



It's too good to be true











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